The sense of joy you get from doing something yourself can range from small to significant.
In this crazy journey called life it is easy to fall victim to other people’s goals and dreams. When you start a bond or relationship with someone it is easy to put your dreams on the back-burner and forget about what is important to you.
In such a judgmental society it is hard to be able to think for yourself and truly just be you. We are constantly comparing ourselves to others. It is time we live for ourselves in addition to ourselves not vice versa. I have been listening to a lot of Tony Robbins lately…namely The Hour of Power. It is pretty inspirational and has given me the faith in myself that I have been lacking all this time. Each time I listen to it..I drill it into my subconscious mind that I am in control of my thoughts and my mind.
I’ve had people doubting me my whole life and always felt so dumb and powerless…but now I understand that no one can control what I think and how I act and there is such bliss and gratitude that comes from understanding that.
I’ve also noticed how some people are just energy suckers and no good to be around. They are constantly complaining and I realize that I cant help them; it is better to let them be than to try. When your head gets filled with their problems…it’s time to distance yourself from them and carry on.
I feel like a hypocrite because I used to be the one that used to complain about EVERYTHING. Drama queen 👑 wasn’t even the word…I was so used to living in doubt and laziness instead of doing something to fix my problems.I just ranted about it to get it off my chest and then continued as if nothing had happened. I was an expert at turning off my emotions when it was convenient too…often playing the blame game to take focus off of me and my weaknesses and faults.
I have been on the receiving end of people who constantly complain and it is not only exhausting but it’s also depressing. I sincerely apologize to all those I did that to. Well you live and you learn I suppose. It’s funny how life turns tables and shows you how you act through other people.
One thing is for sure, the sooner you live life for yourself the happier you will be.
Stay strong and beautiful!